Have you ever walked up to someone and casually just asked how you doing? The conversation can go in so many different ways but the person in question for the most part will say “oh I’m okay”
What exactly does okay mean? Sometimes people use the word okay to actually mean that they are in fact okay. Sometimes people use the word okay because they don’t want to take the time to explain to you everything that is going on with them. Sometimes okay is a replacement word for everything in my life is falling apart, my home life is not happy, my work life is crazy, and then sometimes okay just means it’s none of your dang business. Pretend to ask people are you okay when we think they’re acting out of sorts or not being themselves or maybe everyday you see this woman smiling and looking like she has no cares in the world and when you look at her different day she looks like a her world is crashing down on her.
Truth is okay is just that okay. If for some reason you feel like you’re not okay it’s okay to say so. Somebody asks Hi how are you today? You can tell them I’ve had better days or this isn’t the worst day I’ve ever had. We are all entitled to having you not so good day. And just because we have a day where we’re not okay doesn’t mean that we are trying to bring everybody else down or being negative it’s just a day that you just don’t feel quite like you. We have our days when we want to wrap ourselves in our cocoon blanket and make the world go away and it is all right to do that. But on the off chance that you start to feel this way more often than not I am not a medical professional in any way I would suggest to find someone who is and can direct you in the right way to finding your bliss again.





